I have been a mother for almost three years; but I have been a daughter for thirty years. Mother's day for me is still about reflecting on and giving thanks for the amazing mother that I have. My mom has been the biggest guiding influence in my life and consequently in my children's lives. Even though she lives 16 hours away and only sees her grandchildren a few times a year, her influence is present in our household every day. The example that she set as a mother, has guided the decisions I make on a daily basis.
The two greatest things I can say about my mom is that she taught by example and she loved unconditionally. In all my years growing up, I never saw my mom treat anyone with disrespect or show any signs of selfishness. Patience, perserverance, faith, and love were not values taught out of a book; but were a constant example evident in her actions. What is the most amazing, is that even my childhood friends were deeply influenced by my mom and continue to be so even after all these years! A constant testimony to the example that I can set for my children.
Despite bad decisions and a bad attitude (for more than a few years), my mom never treated me any differently than when I was on the straight and narrow. Although she made it evident that she did not approve and that she wanted better for me, she always loved unconditionally and never gave up hope for me. With the knowledge of her unwavering love and support, even through very rough patches, my mom has truly been the wind beneath my wings . She has been my teacher, my rock, my counselor, and finally my friend.
I would consider myself successful if I could be half the mom she is.
